100
That many times I have experienced my beloved passion of the Dave Matthews Band. All day and night people at my home venue of Deer Creek outside of Indianapolis said the same thing to me: “Happy 100th show!!” It was always hard to react. First off, I’m hardly the first person to go to 100 DMB shows. As a matter many of my close friends have already hit that century mark. Also, it’s such an unusual accomplishment. It’s not like it’s a birthday or landing a new job…it’s just a milestone of the number of times I have forked over a few bucks to see my favorite band. I never knew how to respond when I received well-wishes, except to simply say thanks. I really do appreciate it.
Going to DMB shows is not about the music, or seeing the guys play live on stage. It’s not about where my tickets are, or how great the tailgate is. It is not about the setlist, or getting rare songs. It’s not about Boyd tearing into a great solo, or Carter blowing a bubble while playing. Of course all of that is a major part of the experience. However, my 100 shows of DMB are all about friends. The friendships that I have built over the years have been those that will last a lifetime. I have met friends all over the country and beyond that are some of the greatest people that you would ever believe. These people will go out of their way to help one another. Not just with a concert, but in anything.
For example, our greatest accomplishment was raising nearly $3000 after saxophonist LeRoi Moore died for his memorial fund. The check was hand delivered to his family. That is the kind of big-hearted people I am talking about.
It is the pay it forward mentality. Not everyone can return favors back to one another, but we can always help out the next person. And the DMB community always does.
There was definitely a part of me that wanted to have a #100 sign at the show tonight. I even wanted to try and meet the band, or at the very least throw a little card on the stage just saying thanks. But I came to the conclusion that this DMB journey isn’t about the guys on stage, it’s definitely not about me….it is about the friends in the pavilion.
As we tailgated in the parking lot, everyone was excited, not because of my 100th show but because it’s freaking night two of Deer Creek! It’s a venue that never disappoints. It’s a venue with some of the most passionate fans, and some of my very best shows out of 100.
Ironically, my brother Ryan who was at the show tonight was also with me at my first ever DMB show on 5.8.99. He is directly responsible for the DMB madness!
Before our group heads into the venue, two of my best friends in the universe call everyone together. Taryn climbs on top of a truck while my brother Tom pours champagne. “It’s Lance’s 100he show!!” They had noise makers and a big signed card from everyone! Inside the card were two sweet tickets to the show for me and my favorite seat partner: my wife Kim. I can’t thank everyone enough. That was so awesome, and I’ll never forget it! Taryn and Tom are the bestest! Thanks so much to REID, DREWS, and JAY BIRD for the tickets not just for tonight, but throughout the years. Thanks to Jeff and Brian for the same. I had an enormous group from Evansville that loved their seats tonight and night one. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
SHOW #100 Deer Creek Amphitheatre 6.19.10
This is my 17th show and my ninth straight year at Deer Creek.
I was as excited as my 2 year old son when Elmo comes on TV as I headed to my seat. I did not care if they played Bayou Balls 18 straight times, I was going to have a great time tonight. Kim and I made it to our seats and they were PERFECT! Front row up against the rail of the PIT (still the worst idea in the history of mankind).
Many of you know my appreciation for Jeff Coffin. I have loved that guy since lucking into meeting him at Randall’s Island in New York City in 2006. He was so genuinely nice and down to earth. Not to mention he has handled joining the band as well as anyone could have since Roi’s tragic death. So when the guys took the stage we were just feet away and Jeff looked my way, of course I waved like a big goofball and Jeff waved back and smiled. A great sign to start the show!
We had awesome people around us including buddies Michelle and Drew. That always makes the shows a lot better.
The Big 12 string is on stage, and we all assumed it was Big Eyed Fish. This is Jen Cahill’s favorite song and she had never gotten it till tonight. So I was happy for her. I love the song too, and it’s another one of their songs that I think is on the top shelf of awesome openers.
BEF goes into right into one of my favorites: Bartender. I remember an interview Dave did around the time of Busted Stuff’s release. He said that Bartender was his best song he had ever written. That always sticks in my head when I listen to it. I love it, and I love the lyric when Dave is wailing at the end: “God is not above you, He’s not above you, He’s all around” So powerful.
If you remember my review from SPAC I talked about how much I loved Stay of Leave full band. I saw the Gibson guitar come out and I knew it had to be SoL. It just really really rocks out at the end. The enthusiastic Deer Creek crowd was singing the lyrics so loud right with Dave. How about Carter Beauford during the song?! He has one drum stick in his mouth while playing with the other. In his free hand he is holding two shakers against the cymbals and hitting his double bass! Good Lord Carter!! He is talented beyond belief.
Out comes the Big 12 again. I am guessing Kit Kat Jam, and the guy next to me is saying Grey Street. Of course one of the great parts of DMB setlists is never knowing what is coming, and of course we were both wrong. Sweet Up and Down!!! Yes!!! I love this song! It was only the fourth time I have seen it. I will have to listen to the tape, but if I can remember right it seemed like Dave sang right over where Boyd’s solo usually goes. I could be wrong.
Stand Up starts. Hmmmm. Odd. That definitely wasn’t on the radar, but I was thinking cool…at least it’s something different. Not a huge fan, but I wasn’t complaining. Then in the middle the music was still Stand Up, but the lyrics were not, I was so confused. I told Kim what are these lyrics (turned out to be cornbread)…then bam right into Recently! I did not see that coming at all! Ironically, my wife told me before the show she wanted Warehouse and Recently. I laughed and told her we are not getting either of those. Needless to say we were both rocking out to Recently. Pretty Pretty Girl outro and Take me to the River! Love it!
Out comes Nancies. You gotta love it. It’s a staple song and of course it’s a chance for Boyd Tinsley to go crazy. Out of habit my brain immediately turns to Warehouse, but c’mon we all know they don’t play that anymore, plus I can see Dave’s guitar tech getting the Why I Am fender ready to go.
Sure enough Why I am is up next. I like the song, but I have never have really gotten excited about it. I have no idea why, but WIA just kicked my rear end tonight. Its odd how sometimes songs will click later, but I was really into the song. Forever dancing with the Groogrux King!
Out comes Danny Barnes. He has been a setkiller my last three shows. However, the stage crew does not bring out a microphone! Yes, no Road or Caveman tonight! I think Danny Barnes is awesome, I am really not hating on him as a musician I just do not want Cornbread or one of his songs!!
Love me some Spaceman, but I just new Cornbread was next. Nope! Woo! Hmm, what is next? I really had no guess. The guys talked for a few minutes around Carter’s kit, and I could see Carter talking into his IEM. Dave then goes near the mic and starts playing. After just a couple of strums, I knew it was the passion intro! So did Drew and we gave each other a big high five! WAREHOUSE!! Kim laughed and said “I told you so, Dave text me that he was playing Warehouse and Recently.”
The passion intro is so awesome, and it never went to the stop time with the woos, it went right into Boyd just like on the album. The whole pavilion was rocking, and it was great having our old friend back. Ironically it wasn’t even after Nancies. Rashawn Ross still doesn’t seem to know how to play it, but who cares, it’s freaking Warehouse!
The Big 12 comes out again. Now there are only three songs left on that guitar, Grey Street, Kit Kat Jam, and Raven. Crack….Grey Street it is. After Stefan’s recent radio interview we were hoping for the third verse that vanished somewhere in Conan O’Brien’s old Late Night studio. However, nope…just the two. I really miss Roi on the end of Grey Street. Anyone else?
You and Me was well done, and it was even better being with Kim on that one.
Here is where it gets a little corny for me. I am not a fan of Stay, and admittedly I am tired of Jimi Thing. However, I told myself nothing was going to be a downer tonight. So when both of those songs were played I reached in my memory bank of my previous 99 shows to find a concert that I really liked both songs. A time before I grew tired of them. Corny I know, but it worked. For Jimi Thing I thought back to Deer Creek 2004. I remember how much I liked Dave’s scat about soldiers. Jimi Thing used to be one of my all-time favorites. For Stay that was easy. 8.5.04. Riverbend in Cincinnati. One of the best shows ever. That little trick worked, and I really had a great time for both Jimi and Stay.
Time Bomb was rocking in E1, and then comes Watchtower. I am very biased in favor of Watchtower. It gets very little love these days. However, for me All Along the Watchtower is DMB live! It’s a song that brought in a lot of fans on that first live release from Red Rocks 1995. My first 20 shows, I only got Watchtower once! I love it. It was a perfect way to end my 100th show!
Now before Watchtower Dave thanked the crowd for coming. He said this was the 28th time the band had played at Deer Creek. As the crowd cheered, he joked….”We’ve been coming here for 175 years!” I love Deer Creek and it is ironic that my home venue was number 100. I promise I didn’t plan it that way!
Thank you to the Dave Matthews Band for a great 16 years of my life, and 11 years of following them on the road. I love the Seize the Day philosophy. Something I strive for at all times. Today is indeed the Day!
Thanks to the greatest friends a guy could ever have. Thanks to each and every one of you that I have met or talked to over the years. I have learned and taken away so much from all of you!
Thanks to the best wife in the world that loves journey as much as I do!
Wash away this tired notion that the best is yet to come!
Next stop Alpine! See you July 3rd!